Lately there have been a lot of blog posts written about how people have changed since they have become a parent, and how they shouldn't judge anyone.  I agree, but I think we need to go a step further.  I'm tired of the "one-upping" on how tired people are or how busy they are or how they are super mom and still have energy left over.  Seriously, it is becoming a problem amongst moms and I don't think anyone even realizes what it is that they are doing.

I have this friend who, since the day I had my first kid, has tried to one-up me on everything.  And to be honest, it is annoying.  I'm talking one-upping on things that you don't want to be the best (or worst, depending on how you look at it) at.  You know who I'm talking about, I'm sure you have one or two or three or 500 of these friends too.  When I had one kid and I was continue