This morning I took Lance to the doctors for his 12 month check up. Since Lance is my fourth child, I can now pretty much anticipate the doctor’s questions before they are even asked. So imagine my surprise when after the usual “Yes, he’s pulling himself up”, “Yes, he’s cruising”, “No, he hasn’t taken any steps on his own yet”, “Yes, he’s said his first word” (choo-choo, if you’re interested, fol…