FEAR PARALYZES  If you want to get my skin to crawl say the word “spider”. I hate the things.  Now for all of you who like the fact that they kill other bugs, thereby protecting your gardens, and they are more scared of you than you are of them crowd, I say, well...yeah…whatever. I fight tears every time I am near one. I know that in the grand scheme of things this fear is irrational and petty,…