Hi, my name is Nikki.  I AM A SERIAL LIST WRITER. Here is my story. For the first half of my life I slid by only doing the basics that were required to get through life.  I think it had something to do with a combination of defiance and laziness.  The older I get the more I feel like I must take on more than one person can handle at all times or I feel like  I'm not fitting in as an active member…