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Well I know if you ask my husband, he will take sex whenever he can get it. But there is one time of day I can't stand to have sex.............MORNING. I know it's supposed to be great and wonderful, but I am sorry I don't think that's sexy.
How can you feel sexy and in the mood first thing in the morning. Your breath is all nasty, muscles are weak, you need time to wake up, hair all matted to your head, gotta go potty. See......I don't see anything sexy about that picture. By the time you get through all of that, the mood is over....well at least for me.
Nothing can seem to turn off a mans sexual appetite. This really pisses me off, though because from everything that I have been reading says it's so wonderful for your body and mind to have Morning Sex. Speak for yourself.......I guess to each your own. I'm Just Sayin'!
Experts were asked to explain why the hour after he first wakes up is so
hot for him and suggest a few tricks for making it just as satisfyingthan sex after dark.
There’s a biological reason that men are so revved up for sex after a
night’s sleep. “That’s when testosterone levels peak,” says Harry Fisch,
MD, author of Size Matters, “and testosterone is a leading
contributor to sexual feelings in men.” Beyond that, most men wake up
with a giant breakfast sausage between their legs because blood
circulation to the penis increases overnight. But a guy doesn’t look
down and think Oh, that’s just my junk doing its thing. He sees an erection and wants to put it to use instead of letting it, er, deflate.
Why You Should Wake and Quake
Between stanky breath and hair that’s flying in 10 directions, sex is
probably the furthest thing from your mind in the morning, but it does
have its benefits. “When a man has higher testosterone and is
well-rested, he has more energy during sex,” says Goldman. “That energy
will help him last longer.” The key is to figure out ways to banish
those unsexy I-just-woke-up feelings so that you can enjoy it.
“Freshening up a bit will make you more alert and ready to get in the
mood,” says Goldman. Before the action starts, tell him you’re going to
give him 30 seconds to get ready for some mind-blowing sex, then slip into the bathroom to take care of whatever it is that’s making you feel unfoxy.
Morning Moves to Try
Just because he has lots of energy for sex doesn’t mean you do. So opt
for positions that are easy but still hit all the right spots. “Spooning
is an ideal a.m. position,” says sex counselor Trina Read, author of Till Sex Do Us Part.
“Many people sleep in this position, so he can just reach around to
fondle your breasts and stimulate your clitoris.” Or try this: Have him
lie on his side, facing you. Then lie on your back with your legs over
his hips and have him enter you. “Your bodies will form a ‘t’ shape, and
this position is nice if you haven’t brushed your teeth yet because you
aren’t all up in each other’s faces,” says Read. Bonus: It puts him at
the perfect angle to hit your G-spot. Now that’s what we call a good
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