Money, money, money: a topic that comes between every beautiful union and for most, turns ugly. Unfortunately, we need money to buy the things we need, and it is rare that any two people have the exact same view on spending. Key word is need; I get want and need a little mixed up sometimes.
I am a spender. I am more of a "live for today" person. That might have something to do with the fact that I've only had a few jobs where I brought in good money. There is a reason why they call it "free
Those times that I made good money, I had a different take on spending it. I suppose when it is my dads or husbands earned money, I may not take it into consideration how hard they worked for it.
So ya, I was a little spoiled. Marriage quickly brought me a platter of reality that I'm still chewing on.